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Sacrifices of Love

Our Man Malachi

We Covenant Keepers tend to really appreciate the prophet Malachi. Every month we see his words emblazoned across the front of Covenant Comments, “the Lord was witness to the covenant made at your marriage.” (Mal. 2:14) It was Malachi who recorded God’s emphatic declaration, “‘For I hate divorce!’ says the Lord, the God of Israel.” (2:16) How could you not love a guy who confronts the backslider, the faithless, the compromiser? He tells it like it is! His words reassure us that God really has taken up our cause!

As I was recently reading Malachi, I saw what an uncompromising message he preached. He accuses the priests of despising God’s name. He confronts the people regarding their contemptible sacrifices. He points his finger at husbands who have broken faith with their wives and children. He tells the people to their faces that they’re cheaters and robbers. Imagine how unpopular he must have been with his contemporaries. The faces of pastors, acquaintances and spouses may spring to our minds as we say, “Amen, Malachi!” Oh, how we wish God would raise up a Malachi to confront our generation.

Yet as I read the many questions asked by Malachi, God began to speak to me about our own hearts, attitudes and actions. It’s so easy to point out that speck in someone else’s eye! Let’s ask God to speak to us about areas in our own hearts that He may want to deal with.

Question #1

“I have loved you deeply,” says the Lord. But you retort, “Really? How have you loved us?” (1:2)

Ever experienced the “poor, poor, pitiful me” syndrome? You know, felt sorry for yourself because things weren’t going well, because nobody understood or they’d all abandoned you. If we’re honest, we’ve all been there. Malachi’s first statement is a truth declared by God Himself and the people’s negative response. What they were really saying was, “What have you done for us lately?”

God never changes, His love never ceases, His mercies ever endure, His faithfulness goes on and on. Yet like the Israelites we may ask what has He done for me lately? We all go through seasons where it feels like God’s abandoned us, when the heavens are brass and our prayers seem unheard. Sometimes God is testing our faith (I Peter 1:7), sometimes He’s waiting for the perfect moment (Hab. 2:3) and sometimes there’s spiritual cholesterol, blockage of the heart! The problem isn’t with the heart of the One who gives love, rather it may be with the heart of the one being loved. God is faithful and always present and active, whether you feel it, see it or not.

Question #2

“I am your father and master, but where are the honor and respect I deserve? You have despised my name! “But you ask, ‘How have we ever despised your name?’” (1:6)

I imagine we feel pretty safe on this issue. After all, when have we ever despised the Lord’s name? 

I read an article providing some great insight into this passage. The writer reminded us that Biblical  names were generally descriptive in nature. Abraham means ”father of many” and reinforced God’s plan for him. Jacob literally meant “he grasps the heal” but figuratively implied “he deceives.” His life reflected this characteristic. Jesus gave Simon a name that prophetically declared his destiny, Peter, “the rock” upon which the church would be built. A person’s name provided insight into elements of the persons' destiny, behavior or character. Let’s change a word and read that verse again, “I am your father and master, but where are the honor and respect I deserve? You have despised my character! “But you ask, ‘How have we ever despised your character?’”

Have you ever said that you can’t go on any longer? That’s a denial of God’s ability to strengthen you (give you grace) to endure every trial. Ever thought that God couldn’t change your mate? That statement is idolatry since you’ve placed more faith in your mate’s stubbornness, addictions, etc. than in the power of the Lord to change them. That’s discounting and dishonoring His character. Let’s list some of God’s characteristics: God is love, holy, righteous, forgiving, slow to anger, He’s everywhere at once, He sees and knows everything, He’s just yet merciful, faithful, creative, all-powerful, has a name above every other. The list goes on. They’re not only what He does, they’re who He is!

We need new understanding about God’s character. We might see a person doing a good deed and say, “There’s a kind and thoughtful person.” We’d even say that one of their characteristics is kindness. But that same person, in a moment of anger, may turn around and say something hurtful. This inconsistency reveals a flawed character. We mustn’t attribute human shortcomings to God or personify Him by thinking He is inconsistent as we are. God never changes! His characteristics are actually part of His nature, part of His very being.

Let’s take faithfulness as an example. A person can exhibit faithful actions one minute and then betray someone the next. God CAN’T do that. He doesn’t make a choice to be faithful, He isn’t faithful in deed alone, God IS faithfulness. Do you get it? God doesn’t merely show love, God IS love. Look up “love” in the dictionary and there ought to be a picture of God because He alone is perfect love. Consider God’s characteristics by what He does and you will see who God is. This reveals His heart and the motivations behind His actions. Don’t doubt His character, it is always pure and holy and good.

“We distrust the providence of God when, after we have used all our best endeavors and begged His blessing upon them, we torment ourselves about the wise issue and event of them.” John Tillotson (1630-1694)

“But you dishonor my name with your actions. By bringing contemptible food (sacrifices), you are saying it’s all right to defile the Lord’s table. You say, ‘It’s too hard to serve the Lord,’ and you turn up your noses at his commands,” says the Lord Almighty. (1:12-13)

The Israelites were bringing imperfect (blind, crippled, diseased) animals to the altar of God, showing lack of respect and honor. There’s no doubt that those standing for the restoration of their marriages are called to sacrifice, but is our sacrifice blemished? Do we hope with selfish motives, do we conceal bitterness, do we dishonor our spouses (made in God’s image) by words or actions, do we grumble about how long it’s taking? Are you tempted to say, “This is too hard” and turn up your nose at what God has told you to do?

Question #3

You have wearied the Lord with your words. “Wearied him?” you ask. “How have we wearied him?” You have wearied him by suggesting that the Lord favors evildoers since he does not punish them. You have wearied him by asking, “Where is the God of justice? (2:17)

For a season it can appear that those walking in sin enjoy the trip. It’s true that sin provides gratification for a season but the Word tells us this season will ultimately end in destruction. Our spouses may be out in the world, in sin, and we might ask why God allows it to go on and on. Why doesn’t He punish them to get their attention or punish the person they’re involved with to get them out of the picture? Perhaps it’s because His mercy and patience will lead them to repentance. Possibly He’s allowing time for their sin to manifest consequences that will bring them to their senses. Or maybe He’s waiting for you to prepare your heart for reconciliation! Accept that God is in control, that He has a plan and it may unfolding out of our sight. Don’t weary Him by suggesting He is ignoring what’s happening.

Question #4

Now return to me, and I will return to you,” says the Lord Almighty. “But you ask, ‘How can we return when we have never gone away?’ (3:7)

The final question is probably the most critical. God promises blessings if the people would only repent of the sins He’s exposed, yet they say, “Who, us? There’s nothing wrong with us.” This indicates one of two conditions; pride or deception.

Pride denies the truth by saying I’m in control, I know best, my sin isn’t that bad. It’s easy for pride to creep in as we stand. People may look at us and say, “You have so much faith“ or “You’re so noble to wait for that faithless mate of yours.” And we get a bit puffed up and start believing the press reports. Don’t forget that all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. Sin isn’t scored on a relative scale: white lies = 2 points, gossiping = 8 points, adultery = 1,390 points. We are held accountable for our own sin, small or big, period.

Deception, by its nature, can’t see the truth. A deceived person doesn’t know that they’re deceived. As soon as they see, they’re no longer deceived. It is a spiritual blindness that only revelation can break. Pray and ask God to show you areas where you may be deceived, as well as your mate.

Malachi confronted sin so that the people might receive God’s mercy, forgiveness and blessing. Read his final words, 3:16 - 4:6, to see the promises God has for those who fear, obey and love Him. And here’s a few more of God’s characteristics that we can trust: Savior, redeemer, resurrector, restorer.

(All scriptures quoted from the New Living Translation)


Special Prayer Note

As some of you know, Covenant Keeper’s Office Manager was rushed to hospital in mid-May. He underwent 4 operations over the next 10 days, and remains in stable but serious condition. The doctors are optimistic, but anticipate a lengthy rehabilitation. We ask your prayers on behalf of Jim and his family.

We also ask your patience should you contact the office or place an order. Obviously, this medical emergency has had a significant impact on many of the functions at our head office.


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